I agree with your opinion on personal stuff such as my boots by the door. Because of your two day notice on a holiday weekend i myself was out of area and was not able to get to home before your arrival. I always remove any personal items from home. My apologies. As far as the bed sheets one of the bedrooms was a complete new bed, mattress and linens. The other 2 were clean. You mentioned you always bring your own linens and towels when you book airbnb homes?? I have a strict no pet policy and have no pets of my own so not sure what type of pet hairs you found. I lose many bookings because of my no pet policy but because of severe allergies i don't allow pets. As far as towels there are at least 20 clean towels located in all bathrooms and bedroom closets for use of guests. I take great pride in my home and even though i was not expecting guests the weekend you booked i left home as always in clean condition. As for your leaving the home 2 weekends later I'm still scrubbing stains and whatever else it was that is stuck on my floor tiles and grout. What looks like beverage (wine or juice) and what looks like cake batter or some kind of sticky now hard substance.
Upon arrival of guests i always like to be present to go over home and where things are located within the home, I didn't have that pleasure of greeting you as i was away for holiday. It was on Sunday that i arrived "unannounced" to greet you and found one extra unpaid guest which you wrote off as a local family member, which again on your late check out on Monday after you woke up after check out period, this extra person was still in home, which i let slide and didn't make an issue with you or Airbnb. So i can understand why you found my visit intruding.